You should probably make separate posts for your issues. These guys don't like to read long posts. Anything longer than a few lines and they'll just move on to the next one.
I didn't even read your entire post, just skipped through - here and there. Good Luck!!
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Esquire Rule 72: "Driving fast, doesn't mean you're a great driver; but great drivers occasionally drive fast!" Esquire Rule 454: "If it's not fun anymore, it's time to go!"