People that dont get it never will. And the ones that do (like the people on this forum) are the ones that make it all worth while. It is pretty sad that she didnt grasp that you were mostly just re-living old times that she herself was included in. Sounds to me like she took them all for granted, thats too bad. Maybe you should write her back to refresh her memory as to what good times you had....or maybe you should just smack her, jk =)