You should try and put as much stuff in your parents name as possible. If it is feasible take some time off and go on a vacation. At the same time hire a private investigator b/c you being gone will more than likely mean she'll go visit the other guy. You'll get that evidence you need. Don't go and ruin your credit and shit b/c in divorce court that type of seemingly petty behavior might come back to bite you in the ass. I know its hard on you now but use your anger/ sadness to get even. Become calculating and cunning. The Z is a great thing to have but throw yourself into something else maybe the gym or boxing. Summers here go find something pretty and dumb to occupy yourself if you think your ready. Remember your still young. Don't do anything to stupid and don't be afraid to talk about it but not to the point where you seem pitiful. Goodluck bro
