out now rather than more wasted time. Count ur blessings for all the other things u have in your life and for the things you'll now get to experience w/o her to worry about. Hope all works out - but as others said - u file, get ur money out and store w/ some1 u trust, cancel credit cards, do away w/ any cars that might be in both names. Many a divorce has caused bankruptcy and thats the last thing u want. best of luck!