out of your mind and consider the situation at hand first. Talk it over with a close friend then if need be seek professional marital help. Divorce should be your last resort and not a flag to be waved on every occasion. See things from both perspectives and always try to think things through and consider everyone in the families feelings. I think your moving a little too fast but I agree with the above statement. This is something between you.. your wife and child. Don't worry what anyone else thinks, this is your marriage your talking about. The car is easily replaceable.