| This is from his first post back then: "My Z was always babe by me, but ever since she drove it she has scrubed the front bumper, scratch the paint, and some how managed to out-aligned the steering wheel...I gessed that she'd jumped a curve or something. I warned her to take care of it, but her answer was..it yours Z you take care of it." It sounds to me like it's more than just an honest mistake. It sounds like she honestly does not care about taking care of his stuff. She wants him to do the worrying about keeping it looking nice, she just wants to drive it. If she's this way about a car which is very important to him, chances are that she's like everything else in the relationship too. The issue is about more than just a car, it's about trust and respect. Sounds like he doesn't trust her, and she doesn't respect him.
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