and go to a real psychology session if you want advice. we're not qualified of determining the outcome of your married life, and you should know better. don't you have a couple close friends to talk this over with? or how about family? you should never air your dirty laundy on the net.
good luck, cause it sounds like the car isn't the only issue you have with your wife.......
my rides : 1990 300zx TT stock :( 2002 Ford Explorer Sport