saying if your going to get a good size diamond anyway, it's an added bonus. After I broke up with my fiance I got with 3 of her not so close friends because they thought I had a lot of money and was such a nice guy for buying her thet rock. But if I ever do buy another ring it's going to be half that size,but tasteful.A girl should't care how big the rock is if she's really into you.I Live and learn...