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I totally know what you are going through. I moved clear across the country to move in with my now X, and got my wee little heart broken in many pieces. After making the 28 hour road trip back home, I called my best friend for comfort. Turns out she just broke up with her long time boyfriend too. We had never had a chance to date due to the 4 hour difference between us. We consoled eachother and realized how close we really were and that we shared the same ideas and morals. We are now moving in togeather after this season (Sept.) and even talking the BIG M word =) The best thing you can do is give her the space she wants, and go out with the guyz. Eventhough you may want her back soooo bad, don't bug her. Let her come back to you at her own pace. I know how hard it is to get back out there and go places when your heart has been ripped out of your chest, but don't let her know your that depressed... trust me. The ABSLOUTE WORST THING you can do is bug her to come back...(it's one thing to talk about it, but don't make it an everyday conversation)... would you rather her come back right away, and not be ready just to break up again? Or would you want her to come back on her own time and you guys to be togeather forever? Be Strong.... I know it's almost to much to do that, but believe me it will work out.... it always does. Justin
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