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tell you that things can be worst. I was engaged to a woman, she even drove a Z, she was a ttnet member, she was my best friend, she was my love, etc...She dumped me after 18 months on my birthday in front of the USF library, back on Valentines day....then threatens me with all sorts of crazy things, makes me feel bad for dating after the breakup...only to find out she has been with one of my freinds...who is 30 and makes $120k+ a year....Now, bear in mind I am 20 as well...and Karen was 24.....Pete the new guy is 30, and is mr perfect.., mr this, mr that, yada, yada, yada..what you have to relaise is that all the things she is saying about the new guy, are the same things she said about you...the lust and newness will wear off...and then what will her reality be...:) But, you know what this happend back in February, but after a few months you start to relaise just how much better your life really is without them. Just, examine what she did, and dont forget that, note the behavior and dont fall prey to it again, not from her or any one else..its a learning expereince, and at 20 its not the end of the world..she has just opened up a new realm of possabilities and experiences for you. Take from me, I'm just a few months ahead of you. :) Be glad you were not engaged and making life plans, and debts too. Hope, this rambling helps in some capacity. Rob Maddrey AIM na300zxusa

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