Subject	My $0.02...(kinda long)
Posted by	Zdreamin on February 21, 2001 at 9:32 PM
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In Reply To	SZR...Bad News...Need Advice posted by NA300ZX (Tampa) on February 21, 2001 at 05:39 PM
Message	I was with my ex for 2 years, and we decided to split for college. When we came back for christmas break, I told her how much I loved her and that i wanted to try long distance. she said she didn't want to (ouch!), and we are still friends now. The key, i think, is realizing that your ex is an independent person and that if she feels you should be apart (no matter whose fault it is), that's no reflection on you personally, but on your relationship. allowing her to make her own decision and truly respecting that is the key to remaining friends afterwards. and, as soon as you think you might be comfortable with it, talk to her as you would any other friend, i.e. don't be afraid of topics like other guys, your past relationship, etc. respect is the key. if you loved and respected her before, just try to do the same now as her friend. good luck. Zdreamin CBR600 - Coming This May to a Garage Near Me
Follow Ups	SZR...Bad News...Need Advice - NA300ZX (Tampa) 17:39:08 02/21/01 My advise... - Grec (East Bay, CA) 18:01:28 02/21/01 Hmm thanks... - NA300ZX (Tampa) 18:21:32 02/21/01 Re: sometimes friends right away doesnt work.... - E$P(SF Bay Area) 18:42:10 02/21/01 he's right, I've been there myself..it hurts too much>> - my91z(bored) 18:28:21 02/21/01 Agreed (n/m) - wesman [92TT-less ] 20:08:12 02/21/01 my advice - TelZX 18:41:01 02/21/01 im thinking of a G&R song... "i use to love her, but i had>> - Halo Z(San Antonio) 18:43:19 02/21/01 GR? Sings? (n/m) - SactoTodd 18:53:23 02/21/01 NOOOOOOOOOOOo Guns & Roses. hmmm kids......=-P (n/m) - Halo Z(San Antonio) 19:02:24 02/21/01 THAT is a mental image I did not need! :-p (no offence GR) (n/m) - toyluvr 19:27:10 02/21/01 most of you haven't heard me sing on my karaoke machine!!! (n/m) - got rice? 22:55:48 02/21/01 ouch.... sorry to hear man! I don't know quite - toyluvr 18:54:50 02/21/01 or a hottie in a 240sx! ;) (n/m) - Halo Z(San Antonio) 19:04:44 02/21/01 or a red head in a TT? You pig. I hope K is not looking :-) (n/m) - toyluvr 19:25:20 02/21/01 red head?? must be someone i have missed at the meets - Halo Z(San Antonio) 11:41:53 02/22/01 see ... us older folk have similar advice :) take it >>> - YellowZXTT 00:03:38 02/22/01 my 2 cents, walk away... - madman99 19:08:11 02/21/01 Hmm it doesn't like it quite over yet.. - Carlos Ramirez 19:12:01 02/21/01 I agree with ev1 else. just let it go... - Got Boost? 19:18:21 02/21/01 I've been there too, man... it hurts! HOWEVER... - Wild Z 19:34:04 02/21/01 it's not as hard as people make it sound to remain friends - infinite loop 20:47:51 02/21/01 My $0.02...(kinda long) - Zdreamin 21:32:53 02/21/01 matthew 7:7 reads... - jtmiller02[100% REPUBLICAN] 21:51:15 02/21/01 Amen brother....Thanks for pointing that out...--> - z-extreme 00:39:36 02/22/01 Ask my Z car about x-girlfriends!!!, its not pretty, READ!! - cheezoto(OU National Champs) 22:13:50 02/21/01 Going to sound dumb as hell but read Men are from mars>>> - ookxtreme 23:58:20 02/21/01 My ex is currently dating my roommate....It's not easy being - Cherry3z 00:16:05 02/22/01 dude that is so freakin wrong of your roommate to do. (n/m) - maverick (NYC) 12:09:23 02/22/01 Yeah, I know. I've told him as much, and he doesn't feel as - Cherry3z 12:35:07 02/22/01 Thanks for all the advice y'all - NA300ZX (Tampa) 02:40:43 02/22/01
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