| Message | My mother survived cancer but it is extremely scary. Your father sounds like he has a big fight on his hands with so many tumors in different spots, but you HAVE to keep him positive. It sounds crazy, but I am if the feeling that you have to give in to death in these instances, a fighting spirit goes along way. My grandfather was on his death bed for over a year and was not even conscious for months. One day I sat next to his bed and told him to let go, that I would be ok and that I would look after the family and that he didnt need to stay any longer. He passed away the very next morning, seriously. Coincidence maybe, but in my heart I dont think so, I think he heard me and finally was at peace.  Stay strong and if you are religious put total faith in the lord and his direction. I know when their is no light and I feel scared and alone, its then that I feel my faith and I no longer fear anything. Anything is possible, anything, keep faith and show as much love towards him as possible, it WILL make a difference.
 
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